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In Difficulties, Finding the Clearing

Sometimes each of us go through a week — or in my case recently, three weeks — of a personal hell. Maybe “hell” is a strong word for my past…
Roommate I Never Met | C.Kimberly Toms | kimberlytoms.com

The Roommate I Never Met

As a preteen and teenager I lived in an old home constructed during the Great Depression. As I have explained through another story, the house was a new construction in…

From Prison to Plating: High HOPES

In the past, Roulez Magazine featured a story about English prison inmates learning Culinary Arts during imprisonment. Those prisoners even operate their own restaurants at multiple Her Majesty’s Prisons (HMPs).…

Norfolk Sunday of History, Culture and Flavors

Photos by Nicholas Crawford It was September 2, 1945 that Japan officially surrendered to the Allies to end World War II. At that time, the “American Caesar” General Douglas MacArthur…

Burial Beauty In the Eyes of the Beholder

Roulez photographer Nicholas Crawford and I recently ventured into Virginia cemeteries on the hunt for unique sculptural representations of life and death. Our original goal was for capturing imagery for…
Lightkeeper of Currituck | Photo by C.Kimberly Toms

Lightkeeper of Currituck

Meghan Agresto is a modern day lightkeeper. She and her two sons, Benicio and Paolo, several chickens and the family dog Jess live on Currituck Beach Lighthouse grounds where she…

The Call of the Void

On a recent outing with a friend, I explained that I fear heights because this fear is accompanied by a magnetic pull into the abyss. The look on their face…

Ghosts in Fort Monroe

I grew up in a haunted house. Wait, let me rephrase that. I learned about 15 years ago that some family members like to pretend nothing ever happened. They said,…

Haunted Hampton Roads

Photos by Nicholas Crawford. No Halloween is complete without consideration of some known haunted spots, whether you believe in ghosts or just love the folklore. Hampton Roads of Virginia, a…

St. Augustine: Florida for Grown Ups

I am a grown up. As makes sense, when going on vacation I want to go on a grown-up vacation. In other words, lying on a beach where spring break…

Farm Market Traditions of the Outer Banks

The quaint family farm of yesterday, one of growing to sell for self-support, is a heritage very recently on the rebound yet still teetering on extinction. Equally endangered is the…

Outer Banks Beach House

In the Outer Banks of North Carolina, the lifestyle is relaxed and easy. Interior design of area homes is equally laid back and casual, providing space for socialization and enjoyment…

Eight Burgers You Must Try

Super Bowl 50 is coming and with it, the annual scramble for the best finger foods. Of course, burgers are always part of the quintessential Super Bowl repertoire. Wherever you…