The dark web exists as a hidden corner of the internet, accessible only through specialized software that masks users’ identities. Beyond its legitimate uses for privacy and free expression, this shadowy realm has become a marketplace for tech-enabled abuse, where anonymity empowers perpetrators and endangers victims. Understanding this ecosystem is crucial for both protection and prevention.
Throughout April 2025, the Rape, Incest and Abuse National Network (RAINN) is spotlighting tech-enabled abuse as part of Sexual Assault Awareness and Prevention Month (SAAPM). As a survivor, I am very pleased to be collaborating with RAINN to bring attention to tech-enabled abuse and related crimes. Please visit RAINN.org to learn more about their initiatives and how you can help.
In the coming week, I am sitting down with a federal law enforcement professional with deep knowledge of my case history. Beyond sharing my gratitude for their past lifesaving efforts, my biggest goal in the conversation is to walk away with a better grasp on my personal safety, my outlook for the future.
You see, my offender relies heavily on the dark web as a marketplace for tech-enabled abuse services. He hires hackers, cyberstalkers and other shady individuals willing to do shady things. I have endured their efforts for over a decade. I have learned much about how to stonewall hackers trying to break into my websites. Through unfortunate practice, I have learned how to outwit two “bad cops” using federal-style vehicle formations to instill fear in me as I drive in my community, with one of these individuals having been hired to participate (possibly via the dark web). I lived through a violent sexual assault that was likely filmed for this marketplace. I have survived longer than expected after colorful threats of how my body will be disposed of, never to be found again.
As part of the most outlandish attempt to technologically penetrate the fortress I built around myself, one anonymous individual attempted to gain access to me through a high school acquaintance. I had never spent time with this lady in my high school years, but she caught the attention of my offender as “an easy mark.” For six solid months, the hired individual courted this woman from afar, telling her they were a CIA agent and she was the woman of their dreams. The faux CIA agent built a website to reflect his fake CV to the new accomplice. He also used pirated phone numbers of innocent third parties to hide the origin of his communications. She believed the individual and spied on me successfully from June 2014 to January 2015. Every Facebook status I wrote was reported back to the offender. She spent three months trying to finagle air travel tickets from me to my location, having arranged with my offender to meet us at the airport as I was scheduled to pick her up. My gut instincts led to the cancellation of her trip, loss of the ticket money, and an end to the fake romance-fueled spying.
So, how do you thrive as your life is traded on the dark web? I ask myself this often. How am I able to live so optimistically, despite all that has been proven? How do I wake up happy despite knowing my offender could easily slip back into his obsessions and compulsions, or may already be in them right now, and only has to use a manageable amount of his daddy’s money to end me?
I thrive because I have accepted my mortality, thanks to tech-enabled abuse. I tell people often, “Okay, I may die. Now what?” That is what I cling to: We all die. It is simply my job to live as long as I can and make the best of the time I have. How is that any different from anyone else’s role on this Earth? It’s all a matter of perspective and acceptance.
Still, my curious mind wants insight from the federal law enforcement officer. What do they believe my odds are, in outwitting and outliving this individual who feels empowered by his father’s wealth and the open market of .onion sites? Is there still a price on my head? How can I best “make a mess” of a contracted killer’s efforts, both metaphorically and in creating a solvable crime scene? Will parts of me end up in a “Dark Web Mystery Box” sold to a YouTube influencer to open it on camera for likes? The dark web is full of ghosts with tech enablement. If these ghosts move beyond technology and physically come for me, the best I can do is to ensure they botch it enough to be fully unmasked.
The dark web represents a small fraction of the internet, deliberately hidden from standard search engines. Accessible only through specialized software like Tor, it encrypts and reroutes connections through multiple nodes, masking users’ identities and locations. Unlike the surface web (what most people use daily) and the deep web (password-protected sites), the dark web is intentionally designed for anonymity, serving both legitimate privacy needs and illicit activities.
Operating through encrypted networks, the dark web relies primarily on Tor (“The Onion Router”), which layers encryption like an onion to conceal both content and user identity. Websites there use .onion domains not indexed by traditional search engines.
The ecosystem functions through decentralized platforms where transactions occur via anonymizing technologies and cryptocurrencies. Despite their illicit purposes, many dark web marketplaces ironically mirror legitimate e-commerce sites in design and functionality.
Federal prosecutions frequently target several dark web activities:
Dark web criminals employ specialized tools while maintaining anonymity:
The dark web hosts sophisticated marketplaces resembling e-commerce platforms, complete with listings, ratings, and reviews for illicit services. Buyers can purchase:
These markets allow individuals without technical expertise to acquire specialized criminal services while maintaining anonymity.
Cryptocurrencies serve as the financial backbone of dark web transactions. Bitcoin pioneered this role, though privacy-focused alternatives like Monero and Zcash are gaining popularity for their enhanced anonymity features. Dark web marketplaces typically require cryptocurrency payment, enabling transactions without revealing identities. “Tumblers” or mixing services further obscure transaction trails by combining multiple payments.
Law enforcement faces significant hurdles when tracking cryptocurrency transactions:
Artificial intelligence has transformed dark web criminality. As documented in TRM’s report “The Rise of AI-Enabled Crime,” criminals now leverage AI to:
The growing accessibility of open-source AI models has lowered barriers to entry for orchestrating AI-driven crimes.
Combating AI-enabled crimes requires multi-faceted approaches:
The impact of dark web-enabled abuse extends far beyond financial loss. Victims experience:
The long-term stress I’ve endured has taken a physical toll. I’m not the same person I was before—but I continue to thrive nonetheless.
I’ve found some control – and even amusement – by learning to identify my hackers. This requires patience, but their ego-driven actions eventually lead to mistakes. Once in ten years, they’ll use the wrong source IP address, creating a window through which I can glimpse their lives—pet names, spouses, past arrests, residences. These rare wins, though they don’t link directly to my primary offender, help me endure.
Agencies are developing comprehensive strategies to fight dark web crime:
Combining governmental authority with private sector innovation creates robust defenses against cybercrime:
The dark web highlights tensions between individual freedom and public safety:
The dark web presents a complex duality:
Costs:
Benefits:
Addressing this duality requires ongoing dialogue between policymakers, technology companies, law enforcement, and civil society to develop strategies that minimize harm while preserving legitimate uses.
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FAQs
The dark web hosts a range of information, from illicit content like illegal drugs and weapons to personal data such as stolen credit card numbers and identity credentials. It also offers forums for anonymous communication, and resources for journalists and activists needing privacy. However, legitimate and ethical content also exists alongside these illegal offerings.
Bitcoin is popular on dark web sites due to its decentralized nature, which allows transactions to be conducted without a central authority. Additionally, it provides pseudonymity, enabling users to maintain privacy while conducting transactions. Its widespread acceptance across marketplaces further solidifies its use as the go-to currency for illicit activities. Can the authorities ever stamp out the dark web?
Authorities face significant challenges in eliminating the dark web entirely due to its decentralized infrastructure and the continuous demand for anonymity. While efforts can disrupt illegal activities and shut down individual sites, the nature of the dark web means new sites can quickly replace them. Thus, a complete eradication is unlikely, requiring ongoing monitoring and adaptation.